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GRWM | Living in Abuja #6 | Living alone | A day in my life

I've made a YouTube vlog about how I navigate my life in Abuja. I think Abuja is one of the coolest, quietest cities to live in, but I have a problem with it; it's boring and less fun than Lagos. I really miss Lagos State, with its vibrant energy and bustling atmosphere even though Lagos is overpopulated and has a lot of upside down its still a happening place because everyone wants to live in Lagos, but I want you to know that Lagos is not the way Nollywood portrayed it to be, it's just a movie because you will hustle your ass out, Abuja has its diverse cultural scene and its lively nightlife. quiet life, and as an introverted person, I guess that is working for me, but I still miss that Lagos vibe and hanging out with a few friends. I enjoy exploring Abuja's art galleries, museums, and theaters, which contribute to its vibrant cultural scene.

Achieving Your Dreams and Goals

Do you have dreams and goals? Sure you have, but what are doing to make them come true? Often, dreams and goals stay as daydreams, unless you do something turn them into reality. Achieving your dreams and goals depends on several factors: You need to have a specific and clear goal. You have to be sure that you really want to achieve your goal. You need to create a clear mental image of your goal. You need a strong desire. You need to disregard doubts and thoughts about failure. You have to show confidence and faith, and persevere, until you achieve your goal. How many people fulfill all the above-mentioned requirements? Just a few! Most people do not know that there are laws governing success, which should be followed. It is so easy and simple to daydream, and then say, "Well it is just a daydream. It will never come true". It is so easy to give up and lose faith and motivation, when you facing obstacles. You can achieve your dreams and goals using your mental ...

How to Discover What You’re Passionate About

A common theme in most writing on goal setting is the need to follow your passions.  Do the things that make you want to get up early in the morning.  There’s only one thing missing: What if you don’t have any passions?   I’m sure everyone on this planet has interests.  But that’s not the same thing.  Enjoying playing video games isn’t the same as spending thousands of hours designing your own.  Your passion has to be something you would work exceptionally hard for. So what do you do, if there is nothing you feel that engaged about? The Way to Start Isn’t With a Survey… A lot of career guidance involves measuring your current skills and personality, and then deciding what you would be most suited for.  I don’t like this approach because people are complex.  And any test will ultimately be a gross simplification of what’s important to you and what you like to do. I once heard a story about a wealthy woman who was looking for a husband....

What Do You Want to Do With Your Life?

What Do You Want to Do With Your Life? What do you want to do with your life? It’s a question almost everyone asks themselves. It’s also a question  I don’t believe you should bother asking in the first place. “I don’t know what I want to do in life, all I know is that  it isn’t this .” That was the sentiment a friend reflected to me. She’s in her mid-twenties, smart, savvy and hard working. But she is still stuck working jobs that don’t hover much beyond minimum wage. Every year, she tells me, that she applies for Universities, but never goes through with it.  Why?  Because she can’t answer that question. Passion Evolves I worry a lot of people fall into the same trap. The trap of believing that they need to make big life decisions before they can start doing anything. The trap that you need to be born with a passion. And the lie that being able to combine your interests with a profession is easy. When people ask me what I’m going to be doing...

How to be happy – Don’t Worry, Be Happy

                                       How to be happy – introduction Is your life passing you by? Are you so focused on your dreams that you are forgetting to enjoy every day to the fullest and be happy with where you are and what you have now? If you are anything like most people that have a burning desire and vision to achieve something, you could be falling into the trap of being so focused on it that you neglect to enjoy each and every moment on your journey to attaining your goals. I can liken it to the tourist who remarked that the country he was visiting had very nice scenery if only the mountains where not blocking the view. He did not see that the mountains were themselves part of the beautiful scenery. I remember a song "Dont worry,be happy", lol, then in my first year lessons in the music school "TENSTRINGS MUSIC INSTITUTE" my class tutor "Miss Gracedion" will alway...

Stretch your level of knowledge

"   I  don't k now " are  three of the most powerful words you can utter. That simple confession unlocks the doors to information and exposure. these three powerful words are  courageou s,sp oken most often by those who have a strong sense of self-worth. curious minds utter 'i don't know" because they want to stretch and extend themselves beyond their limited sphere. their confession of ignorance on a particular topic opens the waynfor teachers to enter and offer enlightenment,wisdom insight,and information                         Do you know it takes courage to admit you don't know something, and courage again to go after knowledge to fill that void. Destiny seekers are secure in themselves,willing to admit they don't know something. There's a saying that you cant learn to swim and hang on to the edge of the pool at the same time......The way you learn to swim is by getting in the w...