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GRWM | Living in Abuja #6 | Living alone | A day in my life

I've made a YouTube vlog about how I navigate my life in Abuja. I think Abuja is one of the coolest, quietest cities to live in, but I have a problem with it; it's boring and less fun than Lagos. I really miss Lagos State, with its vibrant energy and bustling atmosphere even though Lagos is overpopulated and has a lot of upside down its still a happening place because everyone wants to live in Lagos, but I want you to know that Lagos is not the way Nollywood portrayed it to be, it's just a movie because you will hustle your ass out, Abuja has its diverse cultural scene and its lively nightlife. quiet life, and as an introverted person, I guess that is working for me, but I still miss that Lagos vibe and hanging out with a few friends. I enjoy exploring Abuja's art galleries, museums, and theaters, which contribute to its vibrant cultural scene.

CHANGE IS BOUND TO HAPPEN

  In life we all go through process, i can say constant change, we meet new people everyday, acquire new knowledge quotidian , it’s not the same person you know today you will know tomorrow, people change for a reason, either good or bad change is meant to occur. If someone stops talking to you, it doesn’t mean the person disregard you, it means the person is finding himself, growing and starting a new phase in life I have been in some situation, whereby i dissolve the toxic friends around me, because they add no value to my life, they rather see me as their rival, i wonder why people develop hate interest around you? that i can’t answer for them. To succeed in life, one must be royal, humble and diligent. Not all laughing with you wants the best for you, their are different categories of people in this world, which as you grow, explore you will discover them one by one, bit by bit KENZII PETERS OBIADI

HAVE YOU PROCESSED WHY? STAY IN YOUR LANE, LESS DRAMA

 Nowadays, people don't mind their business. do you think it's ok  minding your business ? or do you think it's fun not minding your business?  the moment we mind ourselves and stay in our lane the better for us, the moment you try to tarnish other persons image it hits you back terribly.

GIVING UP IT'S NOT THE BEST OPTION

  People judge themselves consequently roughly and assume that they're precisely not able they feel to be failing at  commodity they want. It could exclusively  be resolved by trying a nonidentical pat.                                        WHY GIVE UP SO EASILY? P eople  go through lot of things, sometimes we conclude we ain't the best version of ourselves Do you think Rome was built in a day?  

Don't fake it

 Nowadays, people do lot of shits just to belong, fake everything about them, making people see them as that hardworking person.                Now for example, an influencer telling you how she makes million from her content creating needs to be questioned, from the look of things, a lot of youth out there has been deceived in one way or the other, do not believe everything you see on social media, because people lie. i call this guys bunch of liars  

Be safe

I know this lockdown has made lots of people broke, buh don’t worry everything will be alright ok, just don’t forget to keep yourself safe     We have heard from the president, one more week to go and everyone goes back to there normal lifestyle ok

You're ,your own foundation builder

Waw am here again,just read on ok These inspirational articles are part of articles I wrote for my weekly motivational in school Tenstrings music institute  It was proving a challenge to write an article every week, but one which I  enjoyed a lot. After all, if you are too comfortable and not being challenged then something is wrong. At times you need to get out of your comfort zone and do something that requires more from you. That is the only way we grow and growth is not an option for dreamers – it’s a necessity. I have received a lot of positive feedback on these motivation articles and most of it has been extremely encouraging and positive. I am sure they will be a great help to you as you reach out to your dreams. I sometimes get inspired in my music classes whenever am looking at a musical instrument,it makes me to do more,sometimes i create a motivating song and write up, Music for me is quite scintillating and is a part of me, what have you been proud of,w...

Be somebody nobody thought you could be

The first step towards success is taken when you refuse to be a captive of the environment in which you first find yourself”

WHAT IS HAPPINESS?

What is happiness? It is a feeling of exhilaration, satisfaction and lack of worries and anxieties. You usually experience happiness when everything is okay, when plans proceed as expected, and when you are loved or respected. You experience happiness when you get what you want, when doing something you love doing, when a goal is achieved, or while being in a beautiful place, such as at the beach, when the sun is setting. If you could look inside you, when you are happy, you will discover that at these moments there are no worries, fears or obsessing thoughts. This means that happiness and inner peace are interconnected. Happiness, often, seems to be the result of positive events, but actually, it comes from the inside, triggered by external events. It usually seems to be fleeting and temporary, but when you learn to choose, and to allow happiness into your life, it gradually becomes more permanent. 10 Tips to Help You Choose to Be Happy 1. Find the good and positive...

DISCOVER YOUR HAPPY PATTERN

"Happiness is not something you postpone for the future; it is something you design for the present." On a beautiful sunny morning, while walking to work, you meet someone, who asked you for a small loan, months ago, but haven't paid back yet. He smiles at you, says a nice "good morning", and keeps walking. How would you react in this situation? You might think: "What is he thinking? Does he think that I have amnesia?" "He might at least show some respect, and say that he is doing his best to pay me back the loan." The encounter with him might ruin your day. You'll probably keep thinking all day long about the friend and the loan you gave him, while feeling angry and resentful. Every day, we go through many similar incidents. Some of them are easy to deal with, some are a bit unpleasant, and some are annoying, disturbing and sometimes, unbearable. You need to make a choice. You need to make a choice and stand by it, to ...

Don't Be Afraid to Make Mistakes

Don't worry if you make mistakes. Only people who dare, try, and persevere, complete tasks and achieve success. It is so comfortable to be passive, make no effort, and stick to the familiar. However, by doing so, we allow external influences shape your life. Daring, trying new things, and making changes, seem intimidating. It is more comfortable to suffer, complain, and stay in the same place. Why Daring Is Intimidating? You afraid you might make mistakes. You are afraid to look ridiculous. You want to avoid criticism. There is a lack of self-esteem. There is a lack of self-confidence. If you wish to let the above list intimidate you, and therefore, be unhappy, complain, and stay where you are, this is your choice. However, if you want to live a greater life, you should consider taking a step beyond your fears and start daring. It is not so difficult to do. It is a matter of attitude. It is a matter of changing your mindset. As the saying goes, 'it is all...

Don't Go Into Blogging If You Don't Know These 7 Things

Blogging is a creative way to express your feelings, reach out to potential customers, and improve your communication skills. Whether you’re blogging for profit or fun, a blog gives you the power to communicate with people all over the world at the click of a mouse. However, before you run off to publish your amazing blog, it’s important to know these seven blogging tips: 1. Be ridiculously good at one thing and write about that. Are you a professional photographer who would like to reach out to potential clients? Compile the best photographs from every gig, put them in a blog post, and tell a story about why those pictures are special. Make sure to thank the people in the photos for allowing you the pleasure to work with them, because expressing gratitude for the clients you have will encourage potential clients to give you a chance. Are you a self-published author who would like to sell more books? Write blogs about related ideas and share the occasional “preview chapter...

The Laziest Solution Possible

Whenever there is a hard job to be done I assign it to a lazy man. He is sure to find an easy way of doing it. -Walter Chrysler Laziness is a fairly underrated virtue. It’s synonym made the short list of deadly sins (sloth) and it is often seen as the major culprit behind a lack of success (he’s smart but he lacks discipline). I happen to think the opposite.  Laziness quite often means efficiency and when you combine laziness with a strong drive you end up with the desire to find the most efficient solution possible. I’ve been called lazy more than a few times. Laziness allows me to ask questions that, “nose to the grindstone,” types would completely avoid. Here is a short list of important questions that lazy people ask of themselves that other people don’t: Why am I doing this? Why am I doing it this way? What am I trying to get out of this? Is this the best way to get this done? What would happen if I didn’t do it at all? I’ve been called lazy a few times by ...

How to Stop Making Excuses

“I don’t know how.” “It probably wouldn’t have worked anyways.” “I’m too busy.” How often do you catch yourself making excuses. Instead of doing something, you come up with ways to explain your inaction. Excuse-makers are usually seen as weak, lazy or cowardly. I believe this is an unfair generalization. We all make excuses once in a while. Sometimes we make excuses and other times we stop rationalizing and take action. I’m sure most of us can remember times when we procrastinated and wasted days before starting a project. I’m also sure most of us can remember times we started immediately, and finished ahead of schedule. The differences between these two cases could be described as a difference of willpower. When you procrastinated, you lacked willpower. But that isn’t helpful. If willpower is outside your direct control, then claiming willpower as a solution isn’t going to work. Instead, I believe that the answer to stop making excuses lies has two steps: Organizing y...

You Suck. Get Over It

 Life isn’t a steady escalator. Sometimes getting better requires that you first get a lot worse. If you can’t admit to yourself that you suck at something, chances are it will hold you back from future improvements. Pride, ego, fear of rejection, call it what you will. The result is the same. Part of you likes your temporary holdout in life. It isn’t the work that scares you, or even the unknown. It’s the fact that in order to move forward you have to get your hands dirty. Examples of “I Suck” Moments Creating Progress I’d like to argue that “I Suck” moments aren’t the rarity. Letting go of what you already have is a crucial part of many improvements. Here’s just a few examples of how failing to utilize “I Suck” moments could hold you back: The Dead-End Job You want to start a business. But you don’t know anything about business. In fact, you’re pretty sure it can’t compete with the salary you are already earning. Your job is comfortable, but it doesn’t make you want to...

What Do You Want to Do With Your Life?

What Do You Want to Do With Your Life? What do you want to do with your life? It’s a question almost everyone asks themselves. It’s also a question  I don’t believe you should bother asking in the first place. “I don’t know what I want to do in life, all I know is that  it isn’t this .” That was the sentiment a friend reflected to me. She’s in her mid-twenties, smart, savvy and hard working. But she is still stuck working jobs that don’t hover much beyond minimum wage. Every year, she tells me, that she applies for Universities, but never goes through with it.  Why?  Because she can’t answer that question. Passion Evolves I worry a lot of people fall into the same trap. The trap of believing that they need to make big life decisions before they can start doing anything. The trap that you need to be born with a passion. And the lie that being able to combine your interests with a profession is easy. When people ask me what I’m going to be doing...

How to be happy – Don’t Worry, Be Happy

                                       How to be happy – introduction Is your life passing you by? Are you so focused on your dreams that you are forgetting to enjoy every day to the fullest and be happy with where you are and what you have now? If you are anything like most people that have a burning desire and vision to achieve something, you could be falling into the trap of being so focused on it that you neglect to enjoy each and every moment on your journey to attaining your goals. I can liken it to the tourist who remarked that the country he was visiting had very nice scenery if only the mountains where not blocking the view. He did not see that the mountains were themselves part of the beautiful scenery. I remember a song "Dont worry,be happy", lol, then in my first year lessons in the music school "TENSTRINGS MUSIC INSTITUTE" my class tutor "Miss Gracedion" will alway...