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GRWM | Living in Abuja #6 | Living alone | A day in my life

I've made a YouTube vlog about how I navigate my life in Abuja. I think Abuja is one of the coolest, quietest cities to live in, but I have a problem with it; it's boring and less fun than Lagos. I really miss Lagos State, with its vibrant energy and bustling atmosphere even though Lagos is overpopulated and has a lot of upside down its still a happening place because everyone wants to live in Lagos, but I want you to know that Lagos is not the way Nollywood portrayed it to be, it's just a movie because you will hustle your ass out, Abuja has its diverse cultural scene and its lively nightlife. quiet life, and as an introverted person, I guess that is working for me, but I still miss that Lagos vibe and hanging out with a few friends. I enjoy exploring Abuja's art galleries, museums, and theaters, which contribute to its vibrant cultural scene.

WHAT’S YOUR PLAN FOR 2023 ?


A lot of you might have gotten these questions from different people, every new year someone asks you what’s your plan for the year. I know it’s a disturbing question but it's ok

People believe that every year comes with new resolutions, some believe it's the year to concentrate in life because they feel they've wasted their time last year or have new friends and cut off some friends, well it doesn’t work that way, you can actually cut people off when you notice some weird changes or attitude they display, I can tell you that such toxic vibe can't add value to what you're planning for yourself

Cutting people off isn't a bad idea, rather know who and who deserves to be cut or to retain

Living your life comes with a lot of sacrifice, you make sacrifices to get where you wanna be, the way you live now determines the way you plan your future, don't let anyone frustrate your life, again never live your life for anyone

Plan your life in a system that works for you, either good or bad your explanation


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